A Nairalander shares his near death experience. Read below:
This time last year, my life flashed in front of my eyes. It was the
closest near death experience I’ve ever had. My folks will say if the
death that ought to kill someone end up shaving your head, then one
should have every reason to be grateful. I had an interview appointment
with KPMG in Lagos, so I had to travel all the way. Unfortunately, I was
involved in a road crash on the popular Lagos/Ibadan highway.
From
the onset, I had this uneasy feeling because the bus made a loud sick
creaky sound when it was started at the park. As a matter of fact, its
rickety looks was baffling than usual. But waiting for the next bus
wasn’t an option. The probability of missing my interview was 90 percent
putting the steady traffic into deliberation. Or should I say I
prioritized KPMG’s offer than my own life. A risk I will never take
again.
Just about an hour into the journey, we were out of the
city in the middle of absolutely nowhere. I could feel the bus
forcefully pick up speed as we cruised down the pothole ridden highway.
We were going pretty fast at about 100km per hour. The mere thought of
the rigors I was going to go through in Lagos as the sun arose from its
slumber made me exhausted from within. That informed my decision to get
some sleep as I fell slowly into slumber.
I was just about
dreaming about myself in 3pieces Italian suit repping KPMG and
travelling all over at KPMG’s call, attending world class trainings and
conferences beyond the shores of Nigeria, applying all the special
graces, etiquettes and poise learnt from school of poise during business
dinners and meeting tall beautiful and brilliant career ladies. As I
imagined my radiantly glowing future with KPMG, I felt a smile on my
gentle face.
Then all of a sudden I heard a very deafening bang
from behind… dearest brethren the rear tire blew out (bursted) on motion
and immediately the jostle for the steering began as one of the
passenger seated by the driver was either competing or helping the
driver to have that much needed life saving grip on the steering.
Everyone started shouting Mohammed, Jesus, Ifa as the bus swerved left
and right simultaneously on the road with death lurking at the corner.
Babies were crying as mothers called out to their children.
That
moment, my calmness superseded that of River Oni in Efon Alaaye Ekiti
state. That innate fear of death we were all born with just vanished,
and nothing really mattered any more. But the thought of how they are
going to deliver my dead body to my family petrified me. I could
visualize my brother or my sister already claiming my body in tears. I
pitied the struggles of my parents but what do I do? I muttered to
myself Mum, Dad, and Siblings….this is where it all ends. I love you so
much. I wanted to reach for my pen to write down my own epitaph but I
could not find my pen.
I began to wonder what becomes of all my
mahogany tall dreams of the future I have always envisioned. So
condolence registered will be opened? Just like that? I thought I was
going to be another case of many that were born talented but die
unknown. That moment I knew the whole lot that makes us human is just
pure vanity. I had no choice than to close my eyes with the expectations
of opening them in the afterlife.
The driver applied break and
then bus tumbled off the road, rolled down by the side twice and fell
into a mini cliff around shagamu. It was such a gory sight to behold. I
thought I was going to die. The chilly breeze on my body was the best
thing I’ve ever felt. I was so grateful that I wasn’t even injured at
all. I was the first to get out alive unaided before people came to the
rescue. Some people were carried off in Frsc truck designated as
ambulance almost breathless as they fight against death unconsciously.
I
realized two people were trapped inside the bus. In fact, I wanted to
sit where they were seated, but I changed my seat twice by divine
arrangement. I wasn’t certain if they made it out alive, because I
didn’t stay long enough to find out. I left the scene and got picked up
by a Good Samaritan that was heading towards my destination. It is a
pity our government really do not value the life of her citizens. If
they really do, every bus in our parks would have been monitored and
regulated before every trip. In fact, the sight of some of them is
enough reason for a life impoundment.
Nonetheless, this
experience has taught me never to forsake myself at the expense of
anything again. I should not have cared about getting late for the
interview or even missing it. If I had died, KPMG will not pay me a kobo
because I am not even an employee yet. I have learnt to appreciate the
people around me the more.
To everyone reading this right now,
please take a second to appreciate everything in your life. Tell your
parents you love them. Call your best friends for hook up sometimes.
Because you never know what can happen unpredictably. “May we not travel
whenever the highway is hungry” like my folks would pray. I thank God
for sparing my life and I still made it to the venue of interview that
same day on time and passed. My friends said I should have gone back
home immediately after the accident though.
Have you had a similar experience? Please share with us.
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